by Peter James

Of all the toys and devices used to give sexual pleasure, the vibrator is the most Common. When you want to add a little variety to your encounters, or you want something that can stimulate faster, you can't beat a good vibrator. They're also perfect if the woman you're with has trouble reaching orgasm through other methods, and are very effective for masturbation. Vibrators come in several common forms, but the ones generally used for pleasure are either the wand style or the dildo style. Wands have long handles that usually have on-off and speed controls on them...

They have a pad at the end that vibrates, and can be put against your penis, your girlfriend's clitoris, or a variety of other interesting places. These vibrators usually plug into the wall, and some have extremely powerful motors.


-The common dildo shaped vibrator is shaped somewhat like a penis, and is between seven and ten inches long. Most vibrators of this type are battery operated. The can be inserted into the vagina, or held in place to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, penis or testicles. Many dildo shaped vibrators come with sleeves that slip over the vibrator itself.

-They have many different textures and can change the thickness of the vibrator.

-Some of these vibrators also have a collar that rotates, and some come with special side attachments to stimulate the anus or clitoris while being inserted inside the vagina.

These can leave you with an extra hand available for other activities.


-Some vibrators also come with attachments. These attachments can cause entirely different sensations. You can find attachments that are made especially for anal penetration, or for vaginal. There are attachments with different textures for extra sensation. There are special attachments made to stimulate the prostate gland. There are even attachments made to penetrate the vagina with a little piece made to simultaneously stimulate the clit.


If the woman you're with is uncomfortable trying toys for the first time, a vibrator is an excellent choice because she can enjoy considerable stimulation without any penetration. Also most vibrators have more than one speed, so if a higher level is too high for her, perhaps a slower one will be perfect.


If you find the noise a vibrator makes to be distracting, you can wrap the handle in a towel or blanket. As long as it is outside of the body. Be sure not to immerse a vibrator in water, and to always use lubrication to insert anything into any opening in the body.


They now make remote control vibrators that you can change the speed of without touching the actual vibrator. They even make small remote control vibrators that you can insert inside your partner or place over her clitoris by means of a special panty. With these vibrators, you can control the vibrator from across the table or across the room. You can make your partner come without even touching her. The possibility for games with these are nearly endless.


You can add new games and dimensions to your lovemaking with a vibrator, and make your masturbation a whole new experience. I recommend you try them if you're looking for a way to put a little spice in your sex life.

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