Virginity
has
become
an
obsolete
concept
in
modern
Western
society,
allowing
young
women
to
experiment
with
their
sexuality
while
their
male
counterparts
are
doing
the
same.
This
actually
results
in a
healthier
more
well-adjusted
sexual
identity
later
in
life.
However,
virginity
has
not
totally
left
the
modern
scene.
Many
cultures
are
still
upholding
the
value
of
virginity
or
pre-marital
chastity,
mainly
on
the
basis
of
predominant
religious
concepts.
The
most
popular
advocate
of
virginity
is
the
Catholic
Church.
Its
most
obvious
validation
for
this
stand
is
the
teaching
that
all
young
girls
are
the
Virgin
Mary's
daughters.
As
such,
and
having
presented
Mary
as
the
most
pristine
and
chaste
of
all
women,
young
Catholic
girls
are
therefore
forced
to
follow
her
lead
throughout
their
lives.
Of
course,
sex
is
not
prohibited
once
the
woman
has
entered
into
the
sacrament
of
marriage.
However,
while
married
women
are
viewed
with
respect
and
approval,
women
who
remain
virgins
all
their
lives
are
considered
as
consecrated.
Thus,
the
latter
still
achieves
a
higher
status
in
the
Catholic
community.
Aside
from
using
the
Virgin
Mary,
the
Catholic
Church
has
also
employed
countless
symbolisms
in
order
to
justify
the
importance
of
virginity.
Canonizing
St.
Maria
Goretti,
who
died
while
trying
to
fight
off
a
rapist,
presents
such
a
symbolism.
While
the
Catholic
Church
in
ancient
times
did
impose
cruel
punishments
on
women
who
become
unchaste
out
of
wedlock,
modern
ideologies
have
already
diminished
such
harmful
practices.
However,
while
Catholic
girls
may
have
been
spared
such
pain
and
humiliation,
those
from
other
cultures
have
to
contend
with
much
graver
consequences.
One
such
culture
is
present
in
Hindu
countries.
Chastity is a crucial virtue for all Hindu women, not only before they get married, but also after the latter's termination, usually upon the husband's death. Thus, if the husband dies, the widow, who is no longer a virgin, is not suited to wed someone else. Furthermore, her existence becomes not only superfluous, but abhorrent as well. Thus, the ancient practice called Sati was performed.
This
custom
usually
prescribes
that
during
the
husband's
cremation,
the
wife
shall
fling
herself
into
the
flames.
In
so
doing,
she
cements
her
faith
and
honor
as a
wife.
A
modified
version
of
such
practice
is
called
the
Jauhar
or
Jouhar.
This
custom
is
performed
on a
larger
scale,
likewise
prescribing
that
the
wives
kill
themselves,
but
this
time,
with
their
husband's
imminent
death
in
mind.
These
heinous
practices
are
now
outlawed
in
India,
but
some
fundamentalists
still
press
for
a
reversion
to
these
traditions.
Nevertheless,
premarital
chastity
is
still
a
highly
treasured
virtue
in
Hinduism
today.
The
same
statement
holds
true
for
Islamic
cultures.
Muslim
brides
must
remain
chaste
until
the
night
of
their
wedding.
According
to
Islamic
teachings,
Allah
created
the
hymen
because
it
serves
the
function
of
determining
the
validity
of
intercourse,
in
which
women
may
engage
after
marriage.
The
hymen
is
present
in
order
to
make
it
clear
to
women
that
sexual
relations
outside
the
marriage
bond
are
perversions
of a
holy
act
and
are
considered
unclean.
Islam
prizes
the
body's
cleanliness
above
most
things,
and
should,
thus,
be
protected
and
upheld.
Unlike
the
modern
Western
culture,
those
discussed
above
maintain
the
importance
of
virginity
before
marriage.
However,
the
decision
of
whether
or
not
virginity
is
important
depends
essentially
on
personal
choice.
After
all,
a
woman
must
be
free
to
choose,
without
fear
or
coercion,
what
she
can
or
cannot
do
to
her
own
body.
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